Hey if your stuck on extreme from begining do this.
First of go to maps and buy a map of 'Eve Gate' (so you can get back to city easier)
If you wonder out to far and lose where city is, on left hand side where it says maps click on eve gate and WALAH your back at home.
First stay around 0 , 0 untill your level 3 then i suggest moving out and exploring, by buying new maps killing new monsters ect.